IT’S NICE TO DATE A RICH GUY BUT START SOMETHING TO AVOID TOLERATING EVERYTHING MUTALE MWANZA ADVISES YOUNG GIRLS
In video circulating online, media personality Mutale Mwanza was seen speaking to a highly attentive group of women as she gave peace of advice on life. The socialite opened by saying, “It is very important that you young girls, you do not place your lives in the hands of a man because you feel they can provide for you, please stop doing that, please stop doing that,” she emphasized to an audience as they responded in affirmation, “Powerful!”.
The socialite continued talking to the audience, which seemed highly invested and appreciating the vital advise coming from a woman who has done quite a lot for herself and career. The message seemingly so vital that young girls could really benefit from regardless of the fact that, the media personality is neither married nor does she have a publicly known relationship, but truly experience is a good teacher.
As the audience was all locked in, Mutale Mwanza continued advising young girls as she said, “Don’t feel the only way you can get a nice wig, you can buy a car, you can do what is because of a guy, of course yes, we date people who have helped us but thats not the ultimate goal, you can just start small. Whatever money you can make will make you feel very confident such that when you enter a relationship with a rich guy, you won’t tolerate everything, but if you enter broke, broke, ulibe na coin! You find yourself tolerating everything and anything, so empower yourself, start small, and grow.”
Her message to young girls was concise, find something to do for themselves even if it’s not making them lot of money so that when they enter into relationships with well to do men, they have confidence not to tolerate everything. She further cautioned young girls that, if they go into these relationship broke, they would find themselves at the mercy of their well to do men.
The socialite and media personality told a personal story of how at one point she got into a relationship with a rich man who gave her a car, but when the relationship ended, the car was taken away from her.
Mutale Mwanza in narrating the story said, “There was a time I never even had a car, I used to just get on a bus and move, you know sometimes you meet a nice guy, he’s got some money, gives you a car the relationship ends, he takes it back and now you are back to that state, and that’s what happened to me.”
The media personality concluded by sharing a valuable lesson she learned in her life, “And these are lessons I’ve learnt in life, it’s nice to date rich, it’s nice to date wealthy but if your name is not on that title deed, if your name is not on that white book, ahh no you are finished.”
This message has been received with mixed feelings from various social users, men being most in disagreement with her. While others seemed to be in agreement with her opinion. Could there be some true in what she said?
